anima

Author: anima

Solo Retreat: Katy, Texas

The “sleeping when you’re dead” mentality is one of the easiest ways to experience burnout.

Have A Great Weekend!

What are you getting into this weekend? As for me, I am so ready to show off this tan I have from being in Jamaica...

Staycation: Gurney’s Montauk

Nothing says home away from home like a quick staycation at Gurney’s. For about $690 a night you can sneak away from the hustle and..

You Need A Thai Massage

This was the best massage… ever!

Lover’s Rock Playlist

Lover’s Rock is such a happy genre. It reminds me of dancing outside to some good old school reggae, the smell of jerk and Escovitch..

Late Night Post: Friendships That Heal, Sustains

The love in my friendships has sustained me through some of my lowest moments… It also cheered me on when I could not recognize..

Music Video Releases I Absolutely Loved

In a season where we should be loving each other, giving each other grace and space to love freely; music has been toxic and divisive...

Have A Happy Weekend

What are you happy about this weekend? I had my first Thai Massage yesterday and it was such a healing and therapeutic experience. I’d argue,..

Late Night Post: Not Everything Warrants A Response

You do not have to react to everything looking to provoke or invoke a response. In effort to connect, defend or prove, we find ourselves..

Not Everything Warrants A Response

You do not have to react to everything looking to provoke or invoke a response. In effort to connect, defend or prove, we find ourselves..

Style

Black Dandyism: The Met and Identity Politics

Often he was the one of one in many rooms but his intellect, charisma and taste made him one of the most important.

Corporate Girl Summer Wardrobe Basics

I know I know, having to schlep to the office feels like punishment. But going to the office looking like a burlap sack isn’t going..

15 Valentine’s Day Gifts People Actually Want

I want you all to experience love this month by extending and receiving love. Here is a list of 15 Valentine’s Day gifts people actually..

What Makes A Fashion Girl?

So often we see celebrities and instagram girls branding as fashion girls and yet, the clothes are literally wearing them…

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Recession Proof Hair Products I Stick By

I would walk around the salon with my hair pressed asking all of the ladies questions, flip through Essence magazine and watch Telenovelas.

Self Deprecating Humor Is Not That Funny

Newsflash, you don’t get brownie points for being humble, hating yourself or constantly putting yourself down.

100 Degrees Hotter And Healthier With Nervous System Regulation

Part of protection is going to see that lady (a behavioral therapist),

Girl World: TV & Music I’m Into These Days

I love a good story line with a glamorous, well to do, uppity cast

Finally, An Honest Review: Fine Wine Series New York

only 2% of the wine industry professionals identify as Black

08/20/2024

Be More Demure, Very Mindful About Communicating Conflict

Not everything and everyone should make you so emotionally charged that you lose the entire plot.

08/01/2024

The Little Things That Bring Us Closer

always send a thank you card...

04/19/2024

Hacks For Increased Productivity

Looking at screens everyday can't be good on the eyes.

High Self Esteem Reduces Poor Quality Experiences

The woman who gets what she wants has the audacity to get it…

Dream Girls Don’t Do Situationships

Some of y’all slipped into “soft life” and made your brain smooth in attempts to be agreeable.

11 Years of Patience by Star

11 Years of Patience 11 years. Wow, to write that sounds crazy. I have seen instagram posts that talk about being a girlfriend for..

Late Night Message: Isaiah 43:18-19

As I was dozing off in my sleep, I was inspired by Isaiah 43:18-19 NIV: 18 Forget the former things; do not dwell on the..

anima on Black Dandyism: The Met and Identity Politics05/07/2025
thank you for reading! so glad you enjoyed :)
Kathleen on Black Dandyism: The Met and Identity Politics05/06/2025
Such a well written explanation of the concept and history of dandyism. I look forward to your review of your…
Irene on Black Dandyism: The Met and Identity Politics05/06/2025
So beautifully said!! Thank you sharing your knowledge with us!
anima on Recession Proof Hair Products I Stick By03/07/2025
Yes, they sure did! I love that, congrats on growing your confidence xo